Dennessa Writes

 Women are scum too.  Welcome to the blog loves, as the weekend beckons I hope you dualize the slogan 'men are scum' to 'we're all scum'.   I'm not angry per se but I grew up with men, and while I admit to the fact that they can be mischievous and promiscuous, I can also tell you ladies act the same (I'm a lady so I know). No blame games intended here. Scum is a reprehensible person, a reprehensible person is one deserving of guilt, do you know one who isn't? Only Jesus loves, only Jesus! Disclaimer: men are still scum as statistics will prove that they tend to be the ones with more scumish behavior but for the purpose of this blog post I'm going to outline the areas where women are scum too. Have you seen the movie two can play that game? And its sequel three can play that game? Or think like a man and its sequel?What do you see that these have in common? (This one isn't a rhetorical question, leave your answers in the comment section). I'll...

 Who do you call mother? I have a long list of people who I can call mother save from my birth mom. These people helped groom me into the being that I am, invested time, money and sound advice on me and have time and again proven that they're mothers indeed.  Happy Sunday lovelies, and happy mothering Sunday mothers, expecting mothers and would be mothers, and to those fathers who've played both the role of father and mother God bless you immensely. The dictionary gives different variants of the same definition of a mother as a female who's given birth to a child. While it isn't incorrect I beg to differ. A mother might be a big sister, a friend, a colleague or an elderly lady who has as aforementioned invested whatever they have in you to correct, assist, instill knowledge, create awareness or make your life easier. As such a mother isn't just the woman who bore you, but the woman who was your nanny, the aunt who's home you spent most of your holidays, the teac...

  Did you ever see the series One three hill? The theme song keeps replaying in my head, so for those who didn’t see it  I’m going to write out the parts that I like;    “I don’t want to be anything other than what I’ve been trying to be lately, All I have to do is to look into it and have peace of mind. I’m tired of running around wondering what I gotta do or who I’m supposed to be. I don’t want to be anything other than me”. Now that I’ve brought you up to speed, welcome to the blog loves, its been a minute. Today we’d talk about self appreciation.  You know how easy it is for you to appreciate how much another person is making efforts/progress and what strides they’re taking? Or how easy it is to admire a person and or even cheer them up when they seem glum? Why is it uneasy for you to do that for yourself? Go on, give yourself a sloppy excuse I’m waiting… Are you done? Now apologize for that sloppy excuse you gave yourself. Anyhoo, I’m going to tell you what...