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 Hey guys, been a minute and then some. I'm a little withdrawn these days, might show in my writing, please forgive me, let's blame the weather. 


The year has struttered to an end, pray tell do you like the end? There are many a things I had wanted at the beginning of the year, some I noted down, some I kept willing to happen and some I felt should naturally happen. Well my use of tense should've sold me out, I'll spell it out yet, they didn't happen. However some things I didn't even envisage or think possible happened, and I cannot even dare rule out the fact that I was undeserving of some. I don't know what your year has been like, but I'm sure you've had a bit of both categories, you can share in the comment section. 


Most people have already began what I now deem shenanigans; writing or planning their new year's resolutions in hopes of a better next year. I am not against your betterment nor your choice to move on but 2022 isn't within your purview yet. I  advice that at this moment you should collate thoughts, identify loopholes in plans that failed, learn from mistakes made, restrategize, rest (mind and body), reconnect with family and friends instead of looking for whom to cut off. Read on areas that interest you and things you'd like to delve into in the new year. Make plans and pad them, and then just wait. 


There's a lot yet we can make of this year.


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  1. PerfyDecember 16, 2021 at 4:09 PM

    Twas a bitter sweet year and I'm glad you were part of my journey 🤗🤗🥰

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