Dennessa Writes

 "Pillow talk is an intimate, authentic, unguarded conversation that occurs between two lovers", says Alisa Ruby Bash. I agree with the intimate, authentic and unguarded conversation part, but for this post I'll have to leave the lovers part and say that it's the conversations you'd rather have with your inner man, simply because you feel no one else would understand.  Some nights I stay awake conversing with my inner man, the part of me that comes alive with daily affirmations. I tell her you're strong enough to beat this, you're tough enough to continue, you're anointed enough for a breakthrough, you have a superfluous amount of grace for your designated race. These are on the nights that my spirit is high and or inspired by a sermon. This isn't always the case.  Welcome to the blog lovelies, remember your conversations birth convictions, be unavailable for negative conversations that are dour to your being. Feel free to say miss me with that non...

Bloody September!!! I used to connote this month with blood because its the death anniversary of the man who taught me how to love.  Hey lovelies, welcome back to the blog. Please tell me what has happened since the last time we were here in the comment section. Don't forget to share 😉 Today's about a topic rarely discussed; what to do after grieving. A lot of people had a lot of advice for me when Fay passed, how to handle the grief, how to move on from your first love, how to live again, how to keep the faith, how to learn to love again. Some advice I did away with, some were golden. A lot of people helped me thus far and I don't take it for granted. However, nobody told me how it'll feel when the grief eventually passes.  It's been four years since, a lot of turmoil and tears later, dare I say, and I dare say; the grief has passed. Something happens yet, I sometimes feel the need to feel something, I'm in a loop atimes wondering, is it too soon for the grief...