Dennessa Writes

 Here people try to juxtapose your pain with someone who "supposedly" has it worse as a means to make you understand that you have it better, and that should magically fix whatever you're going through. All I can say is lol. Hi lovelies welcome to the blog. Pain isn't foreign to anyone though most people choose to act like they don't know what it is, that's fine too, but you that is a bad actor/actress, don't let the stars in the painless movies pressure you into thinking less of yourself or hurrying into societal standards of a period of grief or sullenness, its the reason why we have more death tolls and angry people, just take time to breathe and stay down until you feel livened enough to be your perfect self again.  If you feel down about something, you're entitled to feel all the feels that come with it, every tear, sleepless night, and all, feel it and don't let anyone rebuke your sulking because therein lies the healing. Now I know one thing

 I learnt something new, may be by revelation or just as time was due. Happy new month lovelies, been a minute. I realized that we tend to talk about the people we love a lot, I mean if you've met me, you probably know who I love. I'm learning to juxtapose my relationship with God with my relationship with whomever I date. You see the thing is, I'm an attention hog so I tend to want to talk to him about everything, yet I have a God who wants me to talk to Him about everything. See I'm learning that a love triangle involves me chasing a man, and a God who desperately yearns for the attention I seek to give another.  A simple instance is in the fact that I've dated men that I could speak about all day and didn't call, but felt the love still booming for them, yet no communication was made because of one clumsy reason or another. Its a replica of the fact that I sometimes talk about God's goodness and grace all day long without talking to Him. Have we not said