Flipside

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See you on the flipside of this pandemonium, where we can shake hands, hug and occasionally share a kiss.
Let's meet before the crisis and eat at that uncanny spot, a bub and some fish.
See you on either side with a facemask hiding your smile or at sunset standing toe to toe.

 -Dennessa.

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